No faith-filled leader in history has ever intended to mishandle a sensitive topic.
But for too long, the modern church in Australia has missed the opportunity to effectively and consistently speak into the lives of their young people regarding sexuality, relationships, and God. Good intentions aside, whether it be miss(or no)-education or a culture that doesn’t foster safe exploration, young people are being left to answer big questions outside of Christian community and are being discipled by the internet.
As a result, we are seeing a generation of young people that have heard Christians think sex belongs in marriage, but aren’t sold on or don’t understand why. They are left with rules to follow or avoid, instead of a pathway to the heart of God and a personal relationship with Christ – the whole point of discipleship!
BKT at Church offers tailored, high-quality Christian sex education programs complete with leadership training, a focus on parent & guardian partnership, ready-to-use post-program bible study resources, and renowned youth and young adult workshop programs designed for year to year use.
We believe in empowering young people to be resilient disciples with healthy sexuality.
If you do too, you’re in the right place.
| What you're looking for... | BKT at Church |
|---|---|
| Age appropriate | ✓ Intentionally designed to your unique demographic |
| Tailored to church needs | ✓ Built in light of a thorough pastoral understanding of your community |
| Affordable programs | ✓ Custom prices and Access Pricing available for eligible churches |
| Mainstream Christian theology | ✓ Developed by trained pastors |
| Informative, fun and engaging | ✓ Full of activity based learning and group discussion, with food! |
| Positive narrative | ✓ Framed around the goodness of God |
| Designed for time-poor leaders | ✓ Ongoing Christian sex education resources, Bible studies and discipleship tools included. |
Great Christian sex education isn’t built around a single Friday night.
It happens when parents, leaders, young people and the wider church community are equipped to have ongoing, Gospel-centred conversations about sex, relationships and identity.
That’s why BKT at Church isn’t just a workshop, it’s a discipleship strategy. We partner with churches by providing youth and young adult workshops, parent training, leadership development, and ongoing Christian sex education resources that help conversations continue long after we’ve left.
At our workshops, young people are:
The impact doesn’t start and end with us. You and your team play a vital role in:
Beginning the conversation before we arrive
Continuing the conversation long after we leave
Walking alongside young people in their ongoing faith journey
Our heart is to partner with your community and to see young people discipled well, and given the opportunity to know a love like no other.
Because ultimately, this is what youth and young adult discipleship is all about.
Download our complete guide to Christian sex education programs for churches, including youth workshops, parent training, leadership development, and discipleship resources.
In every home, the table is more than just a place to eat. It’s a space of connection, conversation, and culture-shaping. Around it, we pass on not only meals but stories, values, and identity. It’s where we learn how to talk, how to listen, how to ask questions and whether it’s safe to do so. The table is a metaphor for discipleship, especially when it comes to forming resilient faith and healthy sexuality in the lives of young people.
Every workshop is shaped by the real questions we receive from young people in churches and Christian schools across Australia. Rather than guessing what young people are thinking, we respond to the conversations they’re already having, helping churches provide biblically grounded Christian sex education before culture fills the gap.
Built with scripture in hand, our youth workshops come complete with parent & guardian correspondence support.
They cover a range of topics including:
Unpacking what scripture and secular culture teach us about sex with a focus on personal worldview.
Pornography's harms and cultural influence with a focus on navigating an overly sexualised, pornified world as a person of faith.
Unpacking the purpose of romantic relationships within and outside of Christian community with a focus on personal values.
Exploring the gift , validity, and power of singleness.
Unpacking what the bible does and doesn't say about masturbation, as well as the difference between lust and love.
How this looks in singleness, dating and marriage, as influenced by culture and the church.
The science behind sex, contraception, and sexually transmitted illnesses.
Exploring healthy and unhealthy expectations and how to ensure you uphold integrity.
Unpacking the beauty and holiness in desire and pleasure as well as the science behind arousal.
Exploring the Truth about our worth in God and the beauty, intention, and purposeful design behind human bodies.
Understanding and applying consent in person and online as well as sex and the Law in Australia.
The importance of strong, healthy friendships with a focus on personal values and boundaries.
The power in embracing your Christ-like identity of worthiness. Challenging society's narratives.
Coming 2027-2028. Watch this space.
An opportunity to ask questions and explore further as a community.
For a full overview of our BKT at Church programs, download our Program Guide.
Exploring the blessing , validity, and power of singleness and marriage at two different gifts.
The true biblical meaning of purity. Unpacking harmful purity culture that can develop in churches.
Exploring the true question behind this question and unpacking person, values-based boundaries.
How to rebuke in love and have successful, yet difficult, conversations with your community.
A deep dive into pornography and it's harms, as well as the murky waters of fantasising.
Values based decision making with a focus on worked examples and group work.
For a full overview of our BKT at Church programs, download our Program Guide.
We prioritise parent & guardian partnership. These conversations must always happen at home more than they happen outside of it. Whether parents are preparing for the birds and the bees, navigating conversations about puberty, or supporting teenagers through relationships and faith, we equip families to disciple confidently at home..
Because of this, our parent & guardian programs come complete with a resource bundle that includes a parent letter, follow up questions, a ‘So, Where Do I Even Start? Parent & Guardian’s Guide’, and a high-quality interactive workshop.
These workshops cover a range of topics including:
Exploring the narratives and influences young people within Christian environments are exposed to both in person and online.
How to balance compassion and personal conviction as the parent of a young person.
How to tackle 'curly' conversations with a focus on practical tips and group sharing.
Unpacking relevant upcoming youth program content.
An opportunity to ask questions and explore further as a parent community.
Workshop summaries and follow up resources to continue the conversation.
For a full overview of our BKT at Church programs, download our Program Guide.
It’s important that your leaders are equipped to navigate these conversations. Now, due to the cultural landscape, handling these effectively is increadibly important.
Our church leadership workshops cover a range of topics including:
Exploring the narratives and influences young people within Christian environments are exposed to both in person and online.
Understanding your position and opportunity within this conversation.
Understanding our own intrinsic motivators, managing stress, and developing personal values.
How to tackle 'curly' conversations with a focus on practical tips and group sharing.
Unpacking relevant upcoming program content.
An opportunity to ask questions and explore further as a staff team.
For a full overview of our BKT at Church programs, download our Program Guide.
We believe all young people should have the opportunity to participate in meaningful experiences, regardless of their church’s location or budget.
That’s why we offer Access Pricing for eligible communities.
For churches in regional or remote communities, communities with smaller youth and young adult numbers, or those experiencing budget constraints, Access Pricing is available through a simple application process.
If you’d like to explore what’s possible for sexual discipleship within your ministry, we’d love to chat. Together we’ll discuss your community’s needs and work to find a solution wherever we can.
Download our complete guide to Christian sex education programs for churches, including youth workshops, parent training, leadership development, and discipleship resources.
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Participants are given the opportunity to work through their learnings, set goals, and create self-led change within their community.
Our program fees vary depending on the booking, so please get in touch to explore this further.
Additionally, we believe all young people should have the opportunity to participate in meaningful sexual discipleship experiences, regardless of their communities location or budget.
That’s why we offer Access Pricing for eligible churches. Contact us to find out more.
As our program is a whole community approach, we recommend booking as far in advance as possible! Ideally we prefer bookings no less than a term in advance. However, from time to time we are able to squeeze a community in with quick notice, so get in contact to explore things further.
The topic of sexual and gender diversity has been one that has ripped through the Australian and Christian landscape in recent years. It is a topic that Christian young people want to be informed about and given a safe space to discuss. We want to raise a generation of Christians who step into big conversations with confidence in the Gospel.
To achieve this, within our general workshops we seek to facilitate and strengthen participants in their independent thinking and research of such topics. We provide a framework built around the heart of God, that aims to equip our audience instead of dictating a list of rights and wrongs.
We do not unpack gender and sexual diversity in our Church Program workshops as it deserves to be explored with time and intention. This is why we have created the BKT Roadmap.
The BKT Roadmap is a therapeutically informed, legally sound program for Christian communities. This program does not champion a particular theological view, or “destination”, but is focused on building skills of active listening, robust conversations, critical thinking, and Biblical literacy, i.e., “how to drive” and “what to pack”. The BKT Roadmap exists to equip communities with the skills they require to have conversations in a healthy, safe, and ongoing way.
If you are interested in this program, please sign up to our mailing list below to receive updates on its launch. The program is due for launch on 2027-2028.
We are very aware of how sensitive the topics we discuss are and take great care to equip the communities that we are working with to continue the conversations we start. We target our content at the age and stage of our audience and work closely with our clients to ensure that the content we present is in line with their vision and values.
Furthermore, we have an incredibly experienced and qualified team. Our Co-Founder, Georgia, has over a decade of experience in parachurch and parish-based youth ministry, has worked as a chaplain in several schools, and has attended bible college. Our other founder, Lauren, is a registered teacher and Wellbeing Coordinator at a Christian school with a Bachelor of Teaching (Outreach and Community Education), a Diploma of Mental Health and a Diploma in Alcohol and Other Drugs.
Additionally, our team is made up of psychologists, teachers, youth pastors, bible college students, social workers, nurses, and more. Everyone on the team is a committed, active Christian, has been trained in child safety, and all follow our child safety compliance policies.
You can read up more on our child safety policies and our team below.
Big Kids’ Table does not represent, or affiliate, with a specific denomination. We pride ourselves on building a team from various protestant Christian backgrounds and expressions of faith. We uphold a mainstream doctrine and you can find out more below about what we believe.
While we uphold a mainstream Christian belief, we offer an explorative cultural analysis of both secular and church environments. Our workshops are designed to help participants explore what they believe and provide frameworks and discussion to do so. Participants do not need to be a Christian to benefit from our program, however we always share a gospel message as we conclude and invite responses.
After all, our dream is that someone would come to faith as a sex-ed workshop, and it’s happening!
Yes, absolutely! We have worked in various contexts, not only Friday night ministries. Get in contact to explore what this could look like for your community.
Yes, absolutely! We have worked with church communities that have done just that. If numbers or budget are a difficulty for you, consider joining forces with another local ministry to double the reach, and half the program cost!
Yes, we sure do. We are passionate about making the love of Jesus known in this space all over the country! Please get in touch to explore what this could look like.
Yes, we do in multiple ways.
Live Online
We offer live online workshops for adults at a cheaper rate than in person. However, please note we do not offer online programs for young people as we believe these conversations need to be had in person where things can be safely and successfully explored in a pastorally considered way.
Sex & God Digital Workshop – For Youth Ministries
A ready-to-run resource for conversations that matter.
This digital workshop equips youth leaders to confidently teach on Christian dating, sex, and faith. With built-in breaks, guided discussion questions, and a comprehensive leader’s guide, it simplifies delivery so you can focus on discipleship and meaningful engagement. This is a self-paced workshop that is not held live.
Just imagine…
💭 Being confident and equipped to talk about God and sex with your community.
💭 Seeing your community thrive in their Christ-like identity and sexuality.
💭 Seeing Jesus glorified in the relationships (romantic and other) you’re surrounded by.
💭 Seeing your young people, and their families, actively challenging culture and representing Christ in all they do.
Not every church is ready to implement a full BKT program straight away. Introducing…
A ready-to-run resource for conversations that matter.
This digital workshop equips youth leaders to confidently teach on Christian dating, sex, and faith. With built-in breaks, guided discussion questions, and a comprehensive leader’s guide, it simplifies delivery so you can focus on discipleship and meaningful engagement. This is a self-paced workshop that is not held live.