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Yes, you need boundaries in marriage too.

It is easy to think that once we’re married, we have free reign to let loose and be as sexually free as we desire. Some Christians can often think of marriage as a ‘sex on tap’ situation. However, the reality is that sex within marriage still requires consent and self-control. No, sex is not on tap in marriage! You don’t get it as much as you so desire, there’s a whole other person with opinions, desires, and values to consider – just like dating.  Knowing how your body responds to your menstrual cycle allows you to communicate your needs with your spouse, not only is it helpful to understand yourself but it creates a channel

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Female Health

My sexual desire feels so hard to control, why did God make it work this way?

No matter what your journey has been up to this point, I want to bring us back to the truth that God is a graceful God whose love and mercy are never-ending. There are people whose experience around dating, physical boundaries, and sex is filled with broken-heartedness, pain, regret, and trauma and I acknowledge this may be a challenging space to sit in.  Maintaining physical boundaries in dating is a challenging enough experience without even mentioning the difficulties surrounding a body full of sex hormones.  Saying that we live in a hypersexualised world should not come as a surprise. The cultural messages we are exposed to suggest that sex is casual and not a big

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Female Health

Why is my sexual desire so inconsistent? Are my hormones to blame?

Are you a woman who’s noticed that you become more sexually aroused during certain weeks of the month? Perhaps you struggle to understand why your libido feels so high despite being single or navigating boundaries in dating? Or perhaps you’re married and trying to figure out why some weeks all you can think about is sex, while during others being touched is the last thing you want? As women, while we are often quite familiar with our hormones in terms of our menstrual cycle, we can often shy away and blush at the thought of talking about hormones and sexual desire! However, this is a relevant and real part of the hormone cycle that few

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Female Health

Does God care about my periods?

HORMONES & THE MENSTRUAL CYCLE – PART 2 Hi there! You might have come here after reading our initial post on the menstrual cycle, if so…welcome back! If you’ve ever wondered whether menstruation was mentioned in the bible or why it is seen as unclean, you’re in the right place because we’re here to share what we have learned about it! There are a couple of instances where menstruation is referred to in the Bible. As with the rest of scripture, we can clearly see the story of redemption reflected in how we see menstruation. Do you think it is a far-fetched call to make? Let me explain.  Our first passage takes us to Leviticus

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